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My Email

Email presents me with a serious problem:

  • It is very important for me that I get to know you, that is what the homepage and my private life and everything is all about. Email is probably one of the best ways to at least get a start at getting to know people. I love to receive and answer email, I can often get to know people quite closely, almost intimately, because it's sometimes easier to say intimate and erotic things via email than it would be face to face.
  • The day isn't long enough. The amount of email that I receive is increasing as more people find out what's going on here. I love to answer email in an intimate and personal way (I hate one-liners!) and when I receive 80-90 emails on one weekend I have a serious problem.
A common sight: Answering emails At the start I sat at the PC day and night and had lots of fun with email, I still enjoy taking time and writing a mail that I hope will turn the other person on. But there weren't so many people involved at the start, I was virtually unknown. Then I won some photo contests and things at "de-privat" and put my pictures in other pages on the Net and the mails began to increase. When my pictures were only available at Jürgen & Petra's Fotoclub all went well for awhile but in the meantime everything has grown a lot.

I like hot emails too, really heavy ones. For example, I have received lots of emails from the guys I have invited to my party on January 23rd (before the party took place) in which they told me in vivid detail what they planned to do with me at the party. I read and "enjoyed" the text of some of the mails again and again...

But back to the problem . Which mails should I answer and which can I leave unanswered? I have never been able to answer this question. I can't just delete an unanswered mail. But if I attempt to answer all of my mails there won't be anything to post about here in my homepage because I will be spending all of my time answering mail instead of being out on the town doing something exciting. And Ralph will at some point get tired of seeing me constantly sitting at the PC... we've searched for an answer for this problem for a long time, with no success to date.

An important alternative: If you can use the BBS instead of writing a mail, please do so! I follow the BBS very closely and react to queries, etc. there.

For now I've decided to handle my mail as follows:

  • First, very important: I read and enjoy every mail that I receive
  • I used to take as much time as I needed to answer all of my mail.
  • Today I am forced to limit myself to answer as many mails as the mail volume and my time allow.

This means that mails sometimes lay in my inbox after I read them for a long time. Right now I have 150 still to answer. I don't delete a mail which I haven't answered, but sometimes mails lay around for so long that the author most likely assumes that I have.

I must appeal to you to please try and understand my situation. I want to hear from you and I will answer as time permits. But please don't become aggrivated if you don't hear from me. I have no other alternatives!

A last tip: Please don't send mails saying, "You're sexy, please send me a hot picture" ... mails like this are the first candidates for being ignored. I can't take the time to send pictures via email, that's why there are tons of pictures here on the homepage. In addition, I cannot do justice to youth protection laws when sending photos via email, who knows, who the recipient really is, it might be the 12 year old son of the district attorney...

So, enough chatter, punch the envelope button and write me!



Sandra